Sometimes a woman be thinking they are way above your league because some men (simps) puts them on a pedestal, acting like women are some type of goddess they have never seen and because of that, those women think they are the prize and a man needs to chase them to get along with them.
Once a woman thinks their value is higher than yours it is game over, they are not going to be interested, most women want to date someone who is above them. They don't want somebody who is less than them, they want an alpha who can lead and dominate them.
To achieve this, you have break her ego, this might seems bad but it is what you need to do to make her see you as an alpha.
Some women are not even worth chasing, but because of their little looks and attention from thirsty guys, they feel like they are the price.
Now, let's dive in on how to destroy her ego
Note: this only works on women that feel they are some kind of wonder woman or Disney princess.
1. Never validate their looks:
Women have this strong desire to be complimented but to a lot of women their ego is gonna be inflated that they are going to think they are better than you, they are so many dudes who are also complimenting her looks, so you doing so we also make you look like those regular dudes that are complimenting her.
2. Never show your insecurity:
Never ask a woman what she feels about you or ask for personal advice. you shouldn't give a f*ck about what a woman thinks about you, she could easily sense insecurity from you if you seek validation from her. if she gives you validation personally, that's fine but never ask her for it.
3. Dress nicely and improve your physical appearance:
You might be wondering how dressing nice helps break a woman's ego. Yeah! It doesn't but It's a kind of psychological trick, trust me you don't want to look stupid while hanging out with a woman, you need your appearance to drive her attention towards you. If your appearance also drives other people's attention this will give her the sense of belief that she's with a high-value person and she's the lucky one.
4. Show interest in other women:
This is a tricky one, you got to make her see that she's not the prize and the chosen one yet, that there is still competition so she needs to put on her best effort to keep up with you.
5. Never tell her "I love you":
Never make her feel you are ready to have a commitment with her, this is where the mind game starts and she'll start playing with your feelings and emotions, just make her feel you enjoy having her around and you have other options you can probably switch to any time, Always make her expect you to say the word "I love you" but never say it. You can make her feel like the commitment will happen anytime soon, the less you ask for commitment, the more she'll expect it. This only works if she's really into you.
6. Never get jealous of other men being around her:
Never make her feel that you are scared of losing her to other men, yes! she is beautiful and attractive and other men will want to try their luck with her or she might try to make you jealous. Do not react for this shows you are not confident enough and that other men are better than you and can take your place, you have to feel relaxed and not give a f*ck about it.
7. Starve her off your attention:
Yeah! she wants to spend time with you, but the more you give her your attention the more she sees you as a low-value person because she will think she can do whatever she likes with you or tell you this what she wants you to do, do not be too available for her, let her miss your presence and attention. Let her know that you have a life apart from being with her. even if you are available you need to play the game.
8. Focus on chasing your goals than chasing her:
This is the real one, becoming successful is an important part of man's life. the more successful you are, the higher value you will be, being successful should be your major priority than chasing a woman, you shouldn't be scared of losing a woman while chasing your dream. they always come.
9. Never argue with a woman:
Arguing back with a woman is a feminine energy, only b*tches argue with each other, you need to learn to shut her up like a man who is in charge, tell her to leave your presence when she begins throwing temper-tantrums at you, and tell her she should only get back at you when she's done yelling. do not give in to an argument with her, make her know you are the boss here. she won't try to argue again with you when you don't give in to her arguments.
10. Never be too quick to have sex:
Even if you are there for the sex, never let her know that your real intention is you being thirsty and you just only want to get under her skirt, make her feel that is the last thing you want to do with her.
If you are too thirsty, this will make her want to play games with you and at the end of the day you might not get to smash, you need to play the game slow and steady.
She knows that what most men are after is sex, Make her feel safe around you, and let her see you as someone different.